In what way did she get a raw deal? I mean, if you don't excuse her actions & she's in prison as a result ... what's not right?

Dan was a lawyer. He used the law against Betty, while she made threats either in front of witnesses, or recorded on answering machines ... what did she expect?

He was, maybe a bad guy, but after more than five decades of marriage I've come to realize that you can never really know what's going on in someone else's marriage. People did say they weren't a good match.

Incidentally, have you ever heard of Alice de Janzé? I think of her as somewhat of a precursor of Betty & Jean Harris. I'm finishing an essay about her right now.