My wife is the best person I've ever known. She's put up with me & my bullshit for more than forty years now. She's more than I deserve.
By & large she doesn't read what I write, either.
Granted, your husband sounds like a real dick. I know the few pieces of mine Lisa has read she's read wholeheartedly. But essentially she's not focused on the topics I cover, so it's not a matter of contention for us.
My sympathies to you. Just keep writing, 'cause your worst half notwithstanding, you do it well.